Hind_Sight....

I know all of us have heard the saying "Hind-Sight is 20/20"....meaning that you only really see things clearly after the fact....meaning that only after the fact...only after something has gone down....is the time that we are able to see things clearly and make good choices but why is that.....

As humans....Being made in GoD's  image....we have the amazing ability of "20/20 fore-sight"....of free will....we are able to do anything...anything BUT....as that saying says....see things clear while deep in a matter.....But Im here to tell you that you don't have to be a "hind-sight victim"....you can see things clearly and react in a positive way right from the start....

How though...??

Knowing yourself is key...knowing the things that make you go...that make you jump....for me personally....I don't do well with what I deem as "stupid" people and those who can't admit when they are wrong....those two get by blood boiling....throughout my "history".....all my "hind-sight" moments are those when I react badly to those type of people...when I let there stupid  or their wrong take me to a stupid or wrong place as well....then very shortly after....I'm sitting there in my "hind-sight".....hating myself for not treating the situation and the person with love....

Now....once you know your triggers...you give yourself the ability to take a step back....and sit in your fore-sight....you know how you're going to react....you feel yourself getting all tight and tense....ready to go....ready to tell them how it is and how it should be but NO....you must STOP and remember the power that both sides have....

When we react badly and rely on that "20/20 hind-sight".... it leaves an imprint on the world...that situation and that person.....many times we can never change it or get it back and no matter how clear you see things after the fact....it does not chance that its "after" and you must now deal with the consequences....

When we stop and rely on our "20/20 fore-sight"...when we pay attention to our patterns and remember that we will always have to deal with the consequences of our actions...your power is unmatched....your ability to get through and not let out-side influences shake anything you have going....

Now don't you worry...you're not alone....I am right here with you....a current work in progress....working my way through a process that will prob take a life time cause as we get older...our triggers change...our tolerance changes...and it should.....we should.... so always be kind to yourself and work your hardest to try...I know I am.....