Trust Issues

Apr. 18, 2016

"The Devil doesn't use strangers to deter you, his favorite entry into your life is usually through those you are closest too....."

Be Yourself....John Mason....
Apr. 18, 2016

 

Do we ever really trust people.....I mean REALLY trust them...with our everything...our lives....our families lives...our money...our home....anything that we could think of....do you TRUST...

SO many people say that they trust from the start whenever they develop a new relationship....people will say, " they have my trust till they do something to lose it," but who sets up the regulations for "losing" it...usually we have our own idea of what we will allow and what is acceptable so really, this new relationship, no matter how great, is bound for the moment where the trust is lost....is bound for that moment that things change and you look at that person different....

When it comes to all relationships we should  just plan to have moments where you are just not too sure about that person...no matter how close you are or how much you both love each other...we should all plan to have a few moments of disappointment and questions....of saying I just don't know about this person...

I personally understand this fact but as most do, struggle to remember it when things go down....as a single women...in my early 30's...no children...great job...great resume....business minded....hardworking and beautiful...its super hard to know who has my best interest in mind and who does not....who is out to snatch me up and who wants to really be on my team....so how do I get through...how do I manage you might ask....

People speak loudest about what they really through their actions that have nothing to do with you....watch them...listen to them....do they talk about doing good things to and for people...do they talk about their family in a loving way...do they work hard or hardly work....in general...do they think of others, even when others are not thinking of them....

Allot of times...when something happens and it has nothing to do with us, we turn a blind eye...we say..."that's them"....but really it's ALL of us....we are all effected by everything we all do....nothing escapes the universe...nothing.....if you hang with people who are always looking out for self...you too will eventually do the same.....

I make sure to watch the company I keep...pay attention to their actions and make sure I give them the understanding and patience I know all humans need to have for one another....

Unfortunately, in this world...someone you love dearly will disappoint you...they will do something that makes you question your relationship and maybe even the person themselves but we all must remember that at the end of the day...if you are the company you keep....and if you work hard and try your best when it comes to how your treat others....they are working hard and trying too....!!!!