Dressing the Part....

Girls and their clothes these days are intresting to say the least...I just ran across a young lady in the smallest shorts ever...and what's worse...most the time it's those girls who should most deff not have that stuff on...where it's not flattering....girls who have that Body Meat everywhere...and dont get me wrong...there is nothig wrong at all with some Body Meat ad really....I feel that all ladies should have some kind of jiggle to their wiggle...some kind of softness to them that their lover can grab onto but there is certainly not a need to have all that out...to show case it to the world....

The new trend of naked dressig is really what shows the difference between girls and women...these new IG models with full nudes...these dresses that are mesh and strips covering very little and these girlsthat are online...for free I might add..."bustin it wide open" for likes and the occasional attention are intresting to me....I don't knock anyone's hustle but what kind of hustle can you really have in that realm...and I speak on a women tip and a professional money making tip...but really what can they really be getting but occasional Reb Bottoms or designer purses that could easily be purchased by anyone....long gone are the days of Pretty Woman so I know there can't be any REAL bills being paid...no car notes...no house payments and certainly no career launching moves are happening so why....???

Then I'm confused that these said girls get upset about not being taken seriously...about constantly getting " Netflix's and chill" texts at 2am....confused as to why he wont take her to a nice dinner...or let her meet his friends and family....won't bring her into his business world...won't talk about a life with her....won't talk about the future....won't find out whta she wants and what her dreams for life are...I've seem these girls be so confused and so upset about how things are ust not going the way they would like....

It's crazy to me that I even have to say this but....( Obama mike drop and paper throw).....you MUST look like a "women" if you want to do women stuff....don't let these video and IG or backpage models fool you ladies....although men most deff like to see these 'girls" and all their glory...and don't let not one tell you they don't....but the reality is that they certainly don't or really can't take these "girls" home....can't take them to the suite at the Staples Center with their boss and his family....can't take them to the family reunion...or simply to have a bite to eat and laugh and talk about life...the future..their life plan...now don't get me wrong...it has happened...there have been "girls" who have been turned into women...but the chances are so slim so ladies...why even risk it.....

BE A WOMEN....BE THAT WOMEN...take care of yourself...yes be sexy but do so in all ways....especially that mind of yours....read...draw...write....paint...sing...whatever you do...whatever you like....grow it....perfect it...work hard...buy yourself dinner...flowers...designer shoes and purse or whatever you like or want in life...go get it and he will have no choice but to follow suit...and make sure you dress the part....I'm not saying full on...floor length everything all the time but just like a display window...you showcase different things at different times....give a little to catch their attention...get them in the "store" to see what's going down...but what should ALWAYS be on display is your "women"...your sexiest asset...your hard work...your original purpose of being made as a helper....a support system in all ways....a compliment...but please remember when he wants and needs you to "bust it wide open" for him...you do so without reservation remembering that you are a WOMEN....(and that's with two snaps and a circle).....

Dedication...You Wouldn't Understand....Nas...Ft Victoria Monet.....