Three babies and a young black man....

In today's world having babies is like getting the newest chain...the news J's...really it's become almost a fashion statement....the more you have...the cooler you are...the more you get from that man...from the government...its almost a win-fall....I mention this cause I once met this guy...a black young man who really had it rough....three kids...three different women and NO idea what he wanted in life....poor thing was all over the place....living here...living there....working here...working there..really no focus....no drive....no plan....

That seems to be a regular thing....a lot of people...not just men and certainly not just black men have trouble finding their way while trying to raise kids....some may say its cause people are having kids younger...babies raising babies as the saying goes but I find that to be untrue....there were most deff "young" parents in years past....young families....young marriages....so what has really changed.....

Priorities...!!!...What is important to people...to families has changed drastically....now...this truly is just my take on things but what we have seen is people having babies without a plan...without a work ethic....without the want and the will to take care of family by any means necessary....in years past people raised their children to add to society....to add to the world...to work hard and see good for their hard work but now we teach our children to get rich quick.....hustle by any means....doesn't matter who you hurt....who you take from...take what's YOURs....but in reality...nothing is OURs....all things belong to HiM who created all things so what's the disconnect....where did things change....I honestly wish I had the answer....I wish I could give that "light-bulb" moment that would change the world and save future generations in an instant....but really my plan and all I can really do is do MY part.... when I do decide to have a family, I will make sure to plan...to work hard but make sure my children know why...make sure that know that it's NEVER about cars...chains...money...houses...bags..shoes...but about love...community...family and future.....now don't get me wrong....your girl most deff enjoys nice things....nice places....and I want my children too as well but If I do nothing else I must teach them that all these things are nothing without quality company to enjoy it with....without the laughs...memories and similes that come along with them.....

That young man I mentioned at the start is still really trying to figure it out and I pray and pray and pray for him....this world is super hard to navigate on your own so I couldn't image having three pairs of eyes staring at me like "what's good"....I will also continue to do my part when it comes to the future of the world...future of the youth......although its not always easy to remember....especially in this materialistic..."ME-first" world......we must always keep in mind that it's NEVER about you....it's Always about US...and at the end of the day...no matter what...who...when...where...or how....the most valuable things are the priceless people.....

....#calculatedrisks.....✌🏿️❤️😀